Civic EG

when i move my shifter to the left or right there is waayyy much slack in it before it actually moves to go into gear and i have figured out the problem i just dont know how to fix it..
my shifter sleeve that goes on the shift rod ont he tranny is moving and not moving the shifter rod. if anyone can understand my stupid description pkease help.

i dont wanna drill out the hole and put in a bigger bolt but idk what to do

usually this is caused by work out bushings that can be replaced... can you show us a pic of the sleeve?

i will get a pic or 2 up in the next day or 2 cause i blew my HG so im gonnna wait till i replace that to jack the car up and what not